wat a stressful 2009...tot ian went to sch...i will be more relax...and especially i knew that he didnt cry at all in class...or even when i was out of sight...but but but...got to know he is a bully in class...he hit his classmates, show his temper n threw tantrums when he wasnt allowed to do certain stuff...and not only to his peers but to teachers n principal too...i wanna diez le...hv been chanting at him...dun climb up n down, dun hit ppl, must listen to instruction..must be gd boy...but he was only gd for a day..and i tot tomorrow will be a better day..but too bad..his pattern resumed..principal suggested i change ian to afternoon session from 130pm to 430pm, cos maybe a smaller class teacher can cope better (fyi, no assistant in the class. only 1 teacher to 13-14kids)...i was so sad..cos wat i want is am class..so that after school..ian can hv his lunch and then nap...if afternoon then he will not be able to nap at that time le...meaning i need to readjust his naptime to 2 hrs before sch...haiz...and another issue....will he gets better after changing to smaller class? will he be gd n listen? will he concentrate during lessons? all these questions make me so stressful...it makes me feel tat ian is so much an unwanted boy....
at times i will think y ian not the victim? so i can teach him to defend himself..and not so stressful...y must he be the bully?
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Sure or not? Being a victim is traumatic & stressful too!
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