2 weeks plus le...still got complaints from teacher everyday...ian hit/slap/push the kids in his class...already changed him to pm class...which i think really gd for him cos the class size is smaller compared to am seesion..he teacher can be more focus on him and oso can handle him bah..... there is only 1 nursery class in the pm session..N1 and N2 combined...but lesson time they are separated..only 4 N1 kids including ian...but still ian has this habit of beating his classmates..i wanna die le manz...everyday..yes everyday sure got feedback from teachers...i dread bringing him to sch..and dread fetching him back...and during the 3 hrs that he was in sch..i was so stressed...instead of feeling free n relax...can u imagine..from 2 jan till todate leh...
today teacher complained again...he hit 2 kids..alamak...i really buay tahan le manz...i went home and whacked him...i just kept whacking him for 10mins..i really went crazy...when my dad came to his rescue..i just pulled him to the room n scolded him...he is really mission impossible...told him nicely everyday...to be gd..dun hit..but he just simply ignore it....so i told him if he hit his classmates...at home i will cane him...so everyday he beat...everyday he will kena cane...i really dunno how to handle him....can someone pls help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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But if u continue to beat Ian then he may get the impression that hitting ppl is fine.
If talking doesn't work, how abt trying time-out? Just find a corner & let Ian face the wall? Kids strive for attention, when they're being ignored for even a min, it's actually hard on them.
I did that to Kay even when she's crying & screaming her heart out. After a few times, she gets the msg & behaves better.
Just try lah...nothing to lose.
Ian mummy,
dun hit Ian lah. I dun think he will understand. May be you try demo method. Demo to him that push can hurt others, hitting is painful to others. How abt asking him to inform u if he gets angry? So he is able to tell teacher his anger instead of hitting others right away.
If kids cannot voice out their concern they will resort to physical action.
It is possible that Ian doesnt know hitting and pushing others are not right.
Dun be stressful, every parent goes thru this stage.
Did u find out why Ian hit others? May be other kids irriated him.
2 Wrong doesn't make a right. Anyway, try a different approach if talking doesn't work. You might want to stop Ian for going school just for 1 day, and explain that if he want to go to school daily, he have to learn to control his strength and listen to teacher.
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