HAIRCUT TIME FOR EMERSON TOO

me n lilian accompanied Emerson for his haircut...good job, E!!!!

New Year!! HAIRCUT TIME

PIX TAKEN AT 7PLUS AM IN THE MORNING...

these pix was taken early in the morning when he just woke up..hahaha...see!! my little boy was in such a cheeky mood!!!...

IAN'S 1ST CRAFTWORK

ian 'made' this card..most work done by 孙老师... ian only coloured the pictures...see the boy n girl...all green..hahaha...maybe he knew that mummy always 脸青青 (stressss)..hahahhaa

thanks to mtdt/klcc/hong/yb/pm/zita

thanks for the listening ears and the patience to listen and advice...

yesterday managed to sit in class with the kids..realised ian really likes sch...and wat i observe was he is strong..haha

1} when he saw one little girl put her fingers into her mouth, she tried to pull out
2) he tried to pull the girl away from the chair when she was biting the chair..
3) he pushed the girl when he saw her feet on teacher's chair...

all these force too big..that girl loses her balances and it seems to others that ian bullies the girl...conclusion to myself was..ian dunno how to control his strength...and that girl is only half his size...

mummies, im not that stress now...(still abit abit lah)..as i know ...ian not really a BULLY that attacks others without reasons...he is just a strong boy...

STILL STRESSFUL

2 weeks plus le...still got complaints from teacher everyday...ian hit/slap/push the kids in his class...already changed him to pm class...which i think really gd for him cos the class size is smaller compared to am seesion..he teacher can be more focus on him and oso can handle him bah..... there is only 1 nursery class in the pm session..N1 and N2 combined...but lesson time they are separated..only 4 N1 kids including ian...but still ian has this habit of beating his classmates..i wanna die le manz...everyday..yes everyday sure got feedback from teachers...i dread bringing him to sch..and dread fetching him back...and during the 3 hrs that he was in sch..i was so stressed...instead of feeling free n relax...can u imagine..from 2 jan till todate leh...

today teacher complained again...he hit 2 kids..alamak...i really buay tahan le manz...i went home and whacked him...i just kept whacking him for 10mins..i really went crazy...when my dad came to his rescue..i just pulled him to the room n scolded him...he is really mission impossible...told him nicely everyday...to be gd..dun hit..but he just simply ignore it....so i told him if he hit his classmates...at home i will cane him...so everyday he beat...everyday he will kena cane...i really dunno how to handle him....can someone pls help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I AM STRESS!

wat a stressful 2009...tot ian went to sch...i will be more relax...and especially i knew that he didnt cry at all in class...or even when i was out of sight...but but but...got to know he is a bully in class...he hit his classmates, show his temper n threw tantrums when he wasnt allowed to do certain stuff...and not only to his peers but to teachers n principal too...i wanna diez le...hv been chanting at him...dun climb up n down, dun hit ppl, must listen to instruction..must be gd boy...but he was only gd for a day..and i tot tomorrow will be a better day..but too bad..his pattern resumed..principal suggested i change ian to afternoon session from 130pm to 430pm, cos maybe a smaller class teacher can cope better (fyi, no assistant in the class. only 1 teacher to 13-14kids)...i was so sad..cos wat i want is am class..so that after school..ian can hv his lunch and then nap...if afternoon then he will not be able to nap at that time le...meaning i need to readjust his naptime to 2 hrs before sch...haiz...and another issue....will he gets better after changing to smaller class? will he be gd n listen? will he concentrate during lessons? all these questions make me so stressful...it makes me feel tat ian is so much an unwanted boy....

at times i will think y ian not the victim? so i can teach him to defend himself..and not so stressful...y must he be the bully?

Janice's wedding @ The Regent Singapore

my long time fren, janice, fren of more than a decade...know her when we were 13yrs old...wow....in my teens leh!!...hahhaa

salind...frens of almost 3 decades...hahhaa...we know each other for 26 yrs le!!!!!

Ian's schooling life started!

1st Jan 2009..a very impt day for both me n ian..it was ian's 1st day of school...N1 @ Smart Junior Kindergarten..

we were early so waited at the void deck nearby..and saw aunty michelle n wayne..the 2 boys had fun running ard..

ok...door opened..kids from all levels (n1/n2/k1/k2) were queuing up to take temperature n health check..ian already inside taking off his shoes..haha..so excited meh? maybe he is familiar with the teachers n environment cos i brought him to sch for a few times before...and inside me i was hoping he will not cry ..and he did not..(dunno issit becos i was there with him)

he was fine...till snack time..i prepared butter cake for his snack..and he was actually eating it till he saw his classmates' lunchbox..some brought cookies/porridge/potato chips..and then he pushed the lunchbox away and said 不要吃!
faintz...he was actually eyeing others' snacks...one mummy was kind enuff to give him a chocolate cookie..and he was happily munching...aiyo...

there was a few times he kept going to shoe rack n looked for his shoes...saying ' i want go gai gai...shoes where?' have to drag him back to class...then awhile later...go to teacher.."aunty, wash hands" then pulled the teacher to toilet...then "aunty, i want sweet sweet"...aiyo....dunno to laugh or to be angry...

the 1st day in sch....he learnt to raise up his arm n said YES when teacher called out his name to mark attendance...so proud of him!!!

ok...1st day only 2 hrs instead of 3..so when teacher said bye to him..he said bye bye aunty...hahaha...the teacher had to correct him...and yes..he said "bye bye teacher" and gave the teacher a hug n kiss....the teacher said 'see u on monday, ian' and he replied 'see you!'

Bye Bye 2008! Welcome 2009!!

Yesterday was last day of 2008. Hope all the bad stuff n suay-ness....went off with 2008...

We planned to gatecrash Elin's place on New Year's Eve..and yes.. WE DID...heee..we planned to hv steamboat and she was like 'HUH? how to hv steamboat at my place?' but of cos we heck lah...we still insisted having steanboat cos michelle was so excited abt it..hahaha..poor elin..

lilian volunteered to buy some steamboat stuff cos she knocked off at 1pm and chinatown market was just nearby to her office..so easier..

we had tomyam steamboat...YUMMY!

After dinner, we relaxed n chatted while the kids were bz messing up elin's place n emerson's room...hahaa...*elin, ur hb got !$@#$@#$ at us bo?*

Theresa left 1st..hmm..ard 1030pm..while the rest of us stayed till 1130pm...actually tot of staying back n welcome year 2009..but the kids were kinda of cranky..so we bo bian but left early...

afterall..we had so much funz...and mummies thanks for making my last day of 2008 so happening..when i tot i was going to spend this day at home alone with kids...thanks alot!!!

**lilian, thanks for getting the stuff...so yummy leh...
**elin, thanks for letting us over to mess ur place AGAIN..hehehe..so when is the next meetup at ur place??? ooh ya..thanks to elin for the 小鲍。。。prawns...hmmm..really like CNY dinner..hehee
**michelle, thanks for fetching n sending me back!!!! love u deep deep!!!
**theresa, lucky u could made it early so we had steamboat together...heehe..

overall, we all felt that we were celebrating CNY instead...wahahhaah