thanks to mtdt/klcc/hong/yb/pm/zita
thanks for the listening ears and the patience to listen and advice...
yesterday managed to sit in class with the kids..realised ian really likes sch...and wat i observe was he is strong..haha
1} when he saw one little girl put her fingers into her mouth, she tried to pull out
2) he tried to pull the girl away from the chair when she was biting the chair..
3) he pushed the girl when he saw her feet on teacher's chair...
all these force too big..that girl loses her balances and it seems to others that ian bullies the girl...conclusion to myself was..ian dunno how to control his strength...and that girl is only half his size...
mummies, im not that stress now...(still abit abit lah)..as i know ...ian not really a BULLY that attacks others without reasons...he is just a strong boy...
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Then u have to show Ian how to control his actions lor.
Like wat Hong said, try to demo to Ian that some of his actions may hurt other kids. Try role-playing with toys or puppets.
Have to reinforce by talking to him everyday.
Hope it helps.
I am thinking thru what could have maybe contribute to Ian's action. You might even need to rope in Issac help, there might be this possibility that such actions is a build up from both your kids. Boys when playing together tends to be a bit "rougher". So need to monitor Issac action at home as well so that Ian can learn.
thks alot pals...
yes i did that to isaac like LP suggested...corrected iz 1st...iz plays rough to ian..and therefore ian oso play rough loh...he dunno he is the sumo....so now correcting n 'chanting' at him all day long....
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